I’m so sorry I have deceived you (and myself) for so many years. Hey mheart I know exactly how you feel. However, I do think that you deserve somebody that will love you fully and passionately, someone who will not discard you the way he has. Love. I have been with the same man for nearly 30 years. Me on the other hand, thats all I want but because of certain circumstance: stress, job hunt etc, he seems to refuse. Only the other day we were still talking about moving in together having a baby getting married, we had booked tickets for somewhere next month i just don’t know what to do i love him so much and always will with all my heart i just want him back. How are you coping with your feelings? He said he’s writing other girls and idk what to do or what’s going on through his head. He said he wanted kids with me when i was ready and when we were stable.. Or move on would be a better choice. i really dont know what to do. When you are ready, you will start finding ways to rebuild your life. Omg…same thing….he promised..drove 8 hrs to bring me back and swore i was all he needed he wad blessed to have me in his life….boom a month after i move back hes cheating with a ex…blocked me on everything…im just sick. 1 month ago we sat down to talk and he said I still love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore. We both broke up with our previous partners in summer 2010. Wow! I’m from Spain and mu husband fro the US. After that week, I started attending more counseling sessions and even taking supplements that could help me control my anxiety problems, but I fear it is too late. I was in this relationship for 3 years…..its always had it issues. Tomorrow he leaves for his home country (originally supposed to be a short trip) but I know he’s not coming back. Then it was for me to live the city. We then talkes again after 2 months, he said he had a girlfriend and that he is sorry for the pain he caused. It all feels pretty telling & painful. my familt is worried about me. And I know that I am nowhere near strong enough to reject him…. Nothing could stop us and now it’s just a big mess. We just cut things off 3 weeks ago and I told him to leave me alone … & I ask him if he ever sees us getting back together. He then was texting me telling me that i suck the life out of hik because of how I am as a person, im negstive and always a downer and emotional wreck and all this stuff and said hebused to be happy before our son, but ever since he was born, he hates coming home he drinks a ton because of me. I felt bad for myself because the person I thought will love me forever is the one who will really hurt me so bad. Its been really hard especially cause he is with someone else now. i am hurting that he said he used to love me very much but he doesnt love me anymore. Many women say they thought their guy was about to break up with them when he popped the question! If he is no longer interested in you, he may stop hugging you, or move away whenever you try to hug him. Now we are just best friends. When your husband no longer loves you it's time to face the reality of what's in store for your future. I never deserved any chance he gave me. Grow as you would if he were next to you, and maybe he will be once again. but i don’t believe that because when we made love it was always random and passionate . You will feel happy and whole again. It got to the point where he was stumbling in at 4am or 7am! Do you frantically try to remind him of what he is about to lose? I asked if someone else was in her life and she got somewhat defensive…..as all I have been reading about using that one sentence “marriage killer” that she may be wandering, or has intentions to. So many hearts torn leaving us with the many WHY questions. He got quite drunk and said he wasn’t happy and didn’t want me anymore. Jess, I was really sad to read your letter. But he kept going on and on,telling me he didn’t love me anymore and starting to laugh and say really nasty stuff as I cried and cried. I felt extremely lonely and heartbroken. Caught him online “looking” and broke it off when we were together about a year, but he lobbied hard and i took a chance, and we got back . Find your self-identity. This one is 59-year-old and not that I know if he has cheated. Pushing yourself to take risks, even small ones, will help keep you from withdrawing into a shell of fear. I know it is over. I believed him. Single mom life is rewarding but the hardest and loneliest life… and knowing that someone you love doesn’t love you enough to stay and ride the waves with you stings. Instead of walking away too, we are drowing ourselves into this painful feelings. A week later in desperation I spoke with his mom who was going to talk to him and let me know. Whe I wont change. I am glad I bumped into this site. I do everything for her which she will let me do. He also confessed that he gave up on me and didn’t feel the love anymore and he only was intimate with me because he was feeling lonely and he missed the feeling of being wanted.. but in my heart I thought we made love… at least I did. I’m holding on, and hoping he doesn’t let go, but I know I cannot stop him. But I stopped being a stay at home mom and went out and got an amazing job to help with the bills and before I knew it I had me back. I am discovering my self-worth and finally doing things for me, being happy with who I am. The day after I moved, the feelings I have for him hit me like a ton of bricks and I am very much in love with him and miss him. I begged for him to come home until new years day. I feel numb. I hope you have found a way of dealing with your heartbreak in the couple of weeks since you posted your story. I hoped one day he, "This helped me realize that I am worth more than what I am settling for. He still takes me out and buys me things and we are still spoiling each other. We got really serious really fast and on my 17th birthday he asked me to marry him. It was like all this never happened and we Weill still together. I just don’t know what to do. She may no longer loves you, and it may be a matter of time before she file for divorce. Even if I was to selfish to show it. I’ve always been independent, and left an abusive marriage only to find myself in a worse situation because though he doesn’t hit me, I seem to have given up all my power somewhere along the line? wikiHow is where trusted research and expert knowledge come together. Coming from the girl who just a few months ago felt like she couldnt go on without him and that her life and dreams where over YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT!!! I can feel he’s moved on and here I am, depressed about the loss of my baby and the love of my life. Many men say they are no longer in love with their wives, but what is really going on is that they are no longer in love with their lives. I hope I can cope up with it. Comforting you when you are in trouble is the least he can do, even if he cannot really offer any tangible help. But a lot of the time I felt like I was begging for the crumbs of his affection which is a horrible feeling. He closed his text this way “ i feel like this is God’s way of saying that i am not the right man for you.” I was really hurt when i read his text and until now i’m still grieving and constantly thinking about him. He asked if we were friends. Almost like I was interfering in his life and he wanted me to leave. After being there a few days he was concerned for me because I was having a hard time signing up for classes at my college– a mix up with my ACT scores getting in to them on time. We have had our ups and downs, but I’ve always felt like we had a good, strong relationship. I was in denial and kept telling myself he’d say these things out of anger. Losing weight. I dont eat, cry most the time, and just feel like i dont know how to feel better at this point. I felt the shift but at the time his business was imploding and several other life challenges were also in play. I feel like my heart has Ripped out of my chest and been chewed on by a Doberman. he like to shut himself out nowadays and i am always begging him to come out of his shell and be happy,but he’s so sulky, i am so stress becos he is hating my dad and he’s so angry with me abt so many things. He then said he needed space to get a grip on things. Now I realise it’s not so bad having a slightly possessive boyfriend it means he loves you and my ex ex really did tell me that everyday. Daisy – I’m sorry to hear that you are in this situation. We were together for 3 years he was there for me when I had medical problems and he was my number one supporter he’s my first and I’m his and I felt like I should’ve have been so hard on him and if I would’ve been more understanding it’s just that I didn’t know how to cope cause I felt he was loosing interest he told me he loves me and to be patient and well I didn’t listen and he’s a year younger and it’s his last year of highschool and I’m in college and I wanted to be part of his senior experience just like he was part of mine on text he told me he loved me that this was too much for him to handle that people were telling him this relationship is too toxic. He said, would it have been easier to go along and pretend? I pray for each of you and just like Ive learned today “just so, everything belongs” isnt for him not loving but for me to love myself that much more! I turned him down several times before just to focus on my studies but he continued to insist. …. We have been in contact since, up and down and seen eachother a couple of times as a lot has happened and we had a lot to figure out ourselves. Olga, we are now in October, how are you feeling now? I can completely relate to this. Till this day I feel most of our relationship was my fault and I probably did create most of the issues. Failure . And then please put those tips into practice! Hes really controlling and jealous and I have respected that in knowing how he is but just recently he came over and just started going through all my stuff saying I was hiding something witch I’m not I’m very faithful to him then he came upon this journal I had that I even forgot about in the journal I wrote about my ex while I was with him but I do not miss my ex I was really not thinking straight that day I wrote that. My ex and i were together for a year. May you gain strength from the God who loves you so much, and who will protect you from anything you can’t handle. What really helped for me it to write out a list of things that I wanted to believe. He says he still cares about me, that he’s worried about me and wants to be friends, he even wants to help me find somewhere to live. we had relationship for the last 7years. It hurts because I wasn’t expecting that response from him. It may reduce feelings of anxiety and anger, and can even reduce your body’s feelings of stress. I was very scared to date again as i came out of a physically and emotionally abusive relationship with her daughter’s father. I’m not sure if it’s because I never forgave myself for hurting him in the past. Said that our lease is up in january and If i csnt fox it by then. I think he is very depressed litterally lays on couch 85 percent of day. I’m sorry if not making sense I’m crying my eyes out just typing this..I’m just overwhelmed, angry because I did so much for that punk, sacrificed almost everything for him and loved him unconditionally despite his flaws and what he had done to me..4 years of marriage wasted..the only good thing and the best thing of it was our daughter. Than I found out about her in January and that he had feelings for her! And then he told me he wants to save it but he wants to fix himself first. Visit a new part of town. He choose to give up on us. genuinely become happy with you and put yourself first. he having an affair for months, we fight often because of the same reason. Within about two weeks of him knowing ( I’m now ten weeks) he walked out on me back to his mothers saying he needed space at first then eventually saying he had been trying to be what I wAnted and that it wasent real- that he used to love me but not anymore. He did this over and over again. Maybe you could start dating him, and take things one step at a time. As a man, and reading about all the women here, does it pertain to men too? I don’t know what is the reason why it is hppenig right know but maybe one day, one dAy I will. I have been working on me, have lost some weight, and am feeling good about myself. So I agreed. Until I was coming home felt he wasn’t that excited and he told me we needed to chat. I can tell you the instant I stopped loving my wife, and it was irrevocable. I am so sad… I want these feelings to be over. He says he’s not in live with you anymore, and he doesn’t see a future with you. I wish I could just shut off what I was feeling like she can just shut it off. He says I’m the nicest most loving person he knows, that he feels so bad about hurting someone “so nice”, that Ive done nothing wrong. I cant believe all thia is gone. It’s been 2 days and I am torn. We ran out of time he then called back. I still struggle with that at times but when my daughter who is autistic throws her arms around me and she reminds me that I am strong and special to someone . I told him that we have been dating for over 3 yrs, he have met my daughter too after 2 yrs dating and think its time to take out relationship one step up. I have tried calling him and he won’t work it out with me, he said he’s done and that I am only hurting myself. Very confused and hurt! It could mean a family member who lets you call them when you're feeling upset. Those times I demand from him is because he’s somehow lacking initiative for us to date, or see each other. I am feeling hopeless. he ignores me and doesnt reply my txtback . Just enjoying the presence of new people can be a big pick-me-up. What Secretly Delights You About Social Isolation? i love him so much. He still wants to be intimate, and we still putter around the house, but outside activities are not done together. (The depression he claims to no longer have…). He just blocked me. Hey ava this is for you But you were strong and brave enough to be vulnerable! He left his ring on our counter. I spoke with him yesterday and he told me (over text) that he doesn’t love me and hadn’t for a long time. Depression is bad enough, and now I’m losing the most important person in my life. I hope you made the right decision for your children sakes. Idk what to think) than I can try and he said good luck to me. Sometimes I asked if everything was just a lie or if he got an amnesia. I cant stand it. We were/are classmates. There’s alot of water under the bridge, and sometimes it’s not possible to go back. But, not in love… Will he ever change his mind or am i hoping. Now he’s been calling me only like once a month maybe a little more and just recently told me he isn’t in love with me anymore and was saying some other harsh things to me. You say “I love you” less. Every action, word, emotion he displayed was HE WAS IN LOVE….even according to the experts out there and things I read. So, I will keep praying and putting my greatest expectations in Jesus. Last night, he said he doesn’t love me at all even though our relationship is already 3 years; nearly 4 years. And he kept telling me because we do always have a fight but the truth is he is no longer interested with me, with us sad but all through this process I hope we will be healed… goodluck. Instead, accept that it is time to start rebuilding your self-image and identity. but only he always utter those words. Rejection temporarily lowers your IQ, believe it or not. He did move home for 3.5 months and we did long distance which worked great, love flurished and sadly we lost the baby and he again supported me sending, him and his family (which I just met) He moved back here and starting working again which was a struggle for him (off work for 6 months), we went away on vacation, which I paid for most of it and we had a great time. You were both treading a different path, but one day you’ll find someone that will walk the road together with you. Psychologists estimate that about 98% of us have experienced some form of unrequited love. Then I burned the pieces of paper in a mason jar. What I had done. I wanted to see him as much as possible, and throughout the whole relationship (1,5 year) I felt like that wasn’t mutual. Fast forward 2 months my husband tells me he loves me and misses me so I stupidly take him back. My heart goes out to you. Through cheating physical altercations I hated myself more for staying. Sometimes love isn’t enough to make relationships work out. we are 2 years and 6 months of relationship. The first couple of days were great: we had planned lots of trip, had loads of laughs, he told me me he loved me and missed me and hugged and kissed me the way I’ve been waiting for for weeks. I thought we were going to try and work through this but after 4 days he has decided it is over. I recently went away on a holiday and he had a lads holiday for a week. If you’ve noticed that he doesn’t invite you to hang out with him, it may be a sign that he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend. All I wanted is for him to apologize and love me and want me. He said horrible things. And he said he wants to wait because maybe is something momentary. will he miss my annoyingness and clinginess one day, will he regret his decision? The unknown factor of what our future holds as a couple, as well as individuals in scary. I feel like a horrible mom my kids should be enough and i do love them to death they are my everything….so why cant i get out of this slump….it feels like a kick to the stomach and him leaving me was so easy for him. And if you continue to do so I will cut you out of my life for good. I hated him and yet didn’t want to let go. YES i have my child and she is the world to me. I became paranoid. He was always out of a job. He said we are friends we never have a relationship. I just wish one day the anger will leave the same as the love I am feeling towards him. I was devistated and have not been able to get over this. He said he wants to go and I’ve asked him to block me off everything to make sure we can’t contact. I want to honor God in the way I treat him, our son, and myself so I keep praying. I would love to make it work, a as he said we still need to get together and talk. Until I realised what I had done and asked for the 10th time for another chance. I’m hoping that this experience isn’t going to leave me hopelessly jaded and cynical (though at this moment I feel like it just might. I feel like sometimes because my relationship was only 8 months, the pain shouldn’t be this harsh- but I did love him and we did have a great relationship. He is 43 and never been married, I’m not sure if he is afraid of commitment or what?!? Their mother decided she didn’t want them anymore (they are 13 and 14) I have been in their lives since they were just babies and consider them my children. I admit it.. one being that when we got together.. I was the one who posted about my 9 year relationship that ended in just a snap. I just wish one day the pain will go away. How it turns out – how you cope with the most painful words you may ever hear – is completely and totally up to you. He wanted to see if he could be supportive which literally made me chuckle out loud. Second time in my life……”I don’t love you any more.” He did this by email. I prayed for us always. We have a three year old little girl together, I want to keep trying to work on things at least for our daughter…but I’m mentally drained and tired of being in a one sided relationship. I cried all day long. He has been drunk every one of the nights since then and Was acting normla towards me( not lovey dovey necessarily, but still normal) like he was answering my wuestions, talking to me. I was trying to protect our son from that which is why i didnt say anything. i hide lots of things behind his back and i know he does that too. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and have a 2 year old son together. Look after yourself now. HELP! i tried and tried to fix this. we had a big fight after he cheated a couple of times ended up impregnating one of his girls, our bby was only 2 years old by that time, he never said he loves me no more me neither, i find my bags packed the day his new bby was born i took them and moved out, time went by my heart finded a place tp forgive him for all the pain and shame he brought me. I felt awful that he could hang up on me but felt he needed to see her. He hasnt called once to even ask me how i am doing. #4. It sounds like your boyfriend is just as confused as you are, and that he doesn’t know how to work through relationship problems. So one night we hooked up and for the first time ever I actually had a real connection with someone, I actually felt something stronger than “this guy’s cute”. Ive had a roigh few weeks with my abusive ex trying to contact me or do drive bys at my house. Or if it was me he wasnt coming home to on weekends.. he simply said it was him ..ge just wants to do whatever he decides .. Ok fare enough.id be ok with that if he included me time just a smidge… But i kept asking him to fight for us. And just today, he said he is fed up with me. good evening sir/ maam; i am really broken hearted as of this moment because we just broke up with my boyfriend. This article helped me recognize my feelings, and, "It has helped me to realize how strong I am. I never really meant to hurt him.. but it had.. and that is one of the things.. after talking with him that he is basing his feelings on.. saying that if you say it enough to someone .. they believe it.. and I understand that.. and Im so deeply sorry for the pain I caused him… I never knew how much it hurt him… but.. here we are.. and now he is leaving.. we are separating… I asked him if this is a separation.. or divorce.. he tells me that he is done.. and he doesnt think it can be repaired… Im SO broken hearted.. we have been trying to make things better all this time.. almost a year.. and all he has ever said to me.. is Im not happy.. that he doesnt feel any better about us.. problem is.. Then a situation with his ex wife happened. I felt ao disrespected, unloved, unwanted, abandoned and a lot of feelings I couldn’t explain. I want to wait with thia big decision but he doesnt. I’ve thought about everything I love about him and it’s real. I am now looking for a job, and need to have one within 3 months for financial reasons. Bothers me too . You are special and deserve so much better. I’ve been trying to figure out what to do, I have talked to my friends, parents and sister.” I was so overwhelmed and out of words that i just asked what’s now and he said ” I don’t know, you’re like a perfect match for me in everyway, I don’t know why my feelings dissapeard….I’m sorry” he hagged me multiple Times but i just didn’t knew what to say, I would want to fix it, its been only a day and i don’t know what to do. I now had to drive an hour 1cway to work…. But I stayed because he would do things that made me think he loved me, like calling me beautiful and being affectionate and always paying when we went out. And with this male biology, what he will perceive as value in the relationship is deep connection and attraction. Truly wish you the best. You may never find all the answers, but you can work through the questions. He just admitted TODAY to the whole thing with her. I married my wife 7 years ago. so we gave it another shot, but kept our relationship a secret from his parent. I want to personally thank the author of this website as well as all of you who openly share and pour your feelings out so that ones like me who feel alone in our thoughts and actions know we are not as alone as we believe. KD, I think it’s awesome that you’re letting go and leaving your relationship in the hands of the almighty! I hope this helps someone going through this right now. But every time we got back I felt like…our love is like immortal. He wouldn’t ever do that to me. But he said it’s not the last time that he’s gonna see me he wants to see me soon I just don’t get it at this point now I can’t sleep bc it’s officially over my chest is hurting so much I still have his scent on me I don’t get it. But I feel now that he has his independence back. I do not want this sad relationship to stop me from having strong and healthy relationships with others. You don’t have to be unkind or cruel. He unfriended me on FB etc. I have never felt so broken in my life. Some of my friends say that I should put the gifts under her tree, but not spend Christmas with them. We finally spoke and he said he needed space, he said it wasn’t me and that he did want me. We were made for love and companionship; hearing the man you love say he no longer loves you is heartbreaking. More than anything, it causes me such deep sadness because I invested years of my life. And now another month later he just told me he loves me and I make him happy and we have so much fun together but he is not in love with me. The pain and shock is unbelievable! Your instinct may be to move closer and try to win him back, but you will lose yourself in the process. Do you beg for him to change his mind? We do a lot of the same things together. He says I don’t trust him, that I’m controlling. I dont know if i could take this all in this too much pain and i dont deserve this. This is my repayment. I worried a lot that things would change when he went to school since I was still in highschool and sometimes i wonder if my constant worrying and negativity dicdnt contribute to what happened. It’s just the way you feel and there’s nothing wrong with that. He wanted to focus in his studies and work. small issues has created big fights between us. YOU can’t change him or make things right for him to want to be with you. We had a huge argument My husband ended up assaulting me that night ,he had never laid a finger on me in the past and this shook me to the core. Long time. 16 Signs He Definitely Loves You, According to Men. We shared a bed but he didn’t want to cuddle me or anything, saying he loves me ‘but not in that way’ and it ‘didn’t feel right’. You may be wondering about your husband’s faithfulness to you, but it’s important for you to know that an affair isn’t necessarily a sign your husband doesn’t love you. I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years. Writing is especially healing because it forces you to slow down, examine your thoughts, and face your feelings more deeply. Kind of hard to hear when you are halfway through our vacation. A lot of times when you're in the grieving stage you tend to get a little self-absorbed. This could mean a friend that you know won't try to speed up your healing. So I continued talking about my feelings and asked him questions questions like, well how do you see us etc. Too much comfort has been shown to reduce your motivation to make changes. When I asked if he ever loved me he said he loves me he’s just not in love with me. I become really sad and depressed because I feel used and he’s confused. i contacted other guys, went out with other guys and wont listen to him like cheated on him. Ive told him many times that what hurts me is him not being there for me anymore just cause we are not a couple anymore that i thought we were friends as well especially for dating for 10 years. I feel the same way you do. He told me he didn’t know if he loved me anymore, that he felt like he should want to spoil me and he wishes that he did but he just doesn’t have the drive and that he hates that about himself. May you find solace even as you’re wading through the grief and pain that your relationship is over. I need answers, i need some guidance. She reassured me it’s just a dark time for him with the divorce and all he’ll snap out of it. Wish all of our lady knows the best for us. You might have even asked yourself, why doesn’t he just break up with me instead of lingering and dragging things out? I tried to help him cope with that. I dont know if i have the courage to tell it, another failure again. For more help, including how getting rid of mementos can help, read on. Now I’m sure because it’s only been 6 months together and his longest relationship in 10 years, he’s 38. He has no intimacy with you When we talk about intimacy we are going beyond sex because many people do not mind having sex without love. He doesnt really want me to come with him at their house but I cried and please and promised that I will just say my goodbye and sorry, he said he cannot handle if he saw that but I insist and let me. Why does everything seem to be geared towards women? First started going in college together. I was demanding for his attention (because I was also going through PMS that time, so I was too dramatic and clingy). Try to forgive yourself. The cuddling on the sofa while watching your favorite sitcom together? It’s a waste of time and energy to endlessly ruminate, obsess, and talk about him. Sitting alone in my bed. When we saw again, we kissed and we had sex after that. Even if you two do still have physical contact, the type of contact can change when he loses interest. Do you try to win him back? I never fought with him in court about anything, I actually walked away with very little. Sometimes we need to take control of our lives and relationships! We had a “small” disagreement over the weekend, and he totally cut me off. I don’t want to be a burden on them, it would be selfish and unfair to them. He can’t handle what’s going on in his life, especially as a man and now feels he can’t provide the life he thinks I deserve. We recommend moving this block and the preceding CSS link to the HEAD of your HTML file. what did you guys talk about.. i know he hates it but i just know if i dont ask he wont tell me because he doesnt want to hurt me.. but it hurts more that he hides it? 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